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Keeping Our Young People Safe in the Community

 

Recently, a small number of parents and students have let us know about some concerning behaviour happening in the local area. A few older-than-school-age individuals, suggested to be in their twenties, have reportedly approached students out in the community. 

While these situations have been isolated, they could be serious. We want to make sure you feel informed, confident, and able support. Therefore, this post explains what to look out for and how young people can keep themselves safe without feeling worried or overwhelmed.

What is Happening?

A small number of students have described being approached by older men that they do not know. These individuals have:

  • Tried to start conversations that feel overly familiar

  • Offered vapes or other items

  • Asked for students’ phone numbers or attempted to put their own number into a student’s phone

Although we don't know their intentions, this behaviour can sometimes be linked to attempts at grooming or 'recruitment' of young, vulnerable people. My aim is not to frighten anyone, but to empower our young people with the knowledge and confidence to recognise when something doesn’t feel right.

Signs to Look Out For

Young people should trust their instincts. If something feels “off”, it usually is. Here are some warning signs that an interaction isn’t safe:

  • Unwanted attention: Someone older tries to start a conversation that feels too personal or persistent.

  • Offering gifts: Vapes, food, drinks, money, or anything that feels like a “freebie”. This could create a sense of debt.

  • Requests for contact details: Asking for a phone number, Snapchat, Instagram, or trying to take a student’s phone.

  • Pressure to meet again: Suggesting they “hang out”, meet later, or keep the conversation secret.

  • Behaviour that feels too friendly, too fast: Compliments, flattery, or acting as though they already know the student.

 

If a student experiences any of these, they should remove themselves from the situation as quickly and safely as possible and tell someone they trust.

How our Students can Keep Themselves Safe:

We want our students to feel confident, not anxious. These simple steps can help them stay safe and in control:

  • Stay with friends: Walking in groups is safer and feels more comfortable.

  • Keep your phone away when walking: It helps you stay aware of your surroundings

  • Don’t accept items from strangers: Even if they seem friendly

  • Say no clearly and walk away: You don’t need to explain or apologise

  • Tell a trusted adult straight away: A parent, carer, teacher, or another adult you trust

  • Use safe routes: Well‑lit, busy paths where other people are around

  • Know who to contact: If something feels urgent or unsafe, call 999

 

 

As ever, if you have any concerns, please contact us directly via the following email address: safeguarding@bhcs.sfet.org.uk 

 

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